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Looking for a bi female switch to play with me and Sir!

So I'm pretty new to all this but I'm a sub in training for Sir and he'd like to help me with one of my fantasies...playing with a woman.

We think a bi female switch would work best as she can be sub to Him and Domme to me.

Get in touch if you're interested. If we all decide to find out more about each other we can swap Fetlife details.

Looking forward to hearing from and meeting a lady who can help with my bicuriosity!

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Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Both
How much Strapon can you handle?Everything!

Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Does the back of a car in the woods count as public? Something about the possibility of being seen really gets me!
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Not that risky really but in a tent at an illegal rave, not realising everyone outside could see silhouettes. Think I need to make new and better stories!


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageBritish
Height165 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureNeck
Body ArtScarred, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Bra size36 / 80
Cup sizeD
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleWeb editor

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA confident man who knows what he's doing in this world but is willing to be patient and understanding..and is happy to teach me as much as I want to learn! He believes pleasure is a 2 way thing and isn't selfish. He doesn't want to hurt me, just show me all the ways I think this kind of 'relationship' can be amazing... everything I've always imagined it could be. Oh and he definitely can't be too looks obsessed but will be able to make me feel comfortable about a body I've never loved. I don't want too much do I? Lol! Well it did say to describe my 'perfect' match!! :-)
Our first dateLaughing and fun...hopefully between three of us!

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Fisting, Hair pulling, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI've had so many recently that have all exceeded anything from my 'vanilla' life...I've discovered I LOVE being tied up and restrained. The St Andrews cross was a revelation. And best of all...I apparently love being spanked. That one was a surprise!

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Regular Bars, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyDP is my ultimate fantasy tho I have no idea whether I could actually do it lol! I'd also like to try with a woman. She'd have to show me what to do tho!!
Fantasy sex partner:I have no idea!!!! How lame haha!

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position
I like to wear:I'm usually dressed nice for Sir when I see him which means I'm dressed nice (or naked!) for my spanking! So far he has only used his hand and a flogger but I fear (secretly can't wait!) there is much more to come!!
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Gloves, Newspapers
Response:Laughing, Joking, Pleasurable Moans
Pain level:Just Red