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Time and patience will prove your worth

Effort and interest is all that is required to begin. However, to truly be submissive and have your desires fulfilled, time must be invested. Only over time and slow progression can two people connect and blend themselves into one. Many people like to think of themselves as a dom or sub but have never truly explored beyond a random encounter or hook up. A long, slow learning experience is what I offer to the right sub. I will not meet up and allow any intimacy. The limits are set by me and the time required will depend upon your effort to please.

I am an experienced dom with both a hard and soft way about me. I do not like to inflict unwanted pain or demand unwilling service. In order to satisfy me, you must surrender your will willingly and understand what it is you give. You do not have to speak, only obey. I will lead you and bend you but I will not break you.

My understanding of the psychology behind submissive tendencies is something you should recognize and value. A dom should cherish and value his sub, not abuse and discard her. Stretching limits and using your body as you want it to be does not require you to be left feeling ashamed or unworthy. A proper dom lifts up his sub and empowers her while simultaneously rendering her powerless. It is a beautiful dynamic when properly executed.

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?A park, trail, restaurant bathroom, dark alley etc.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Restaurant bathroom. My ex sub was wearing a remote vibrator and I had her dripping and unable to take any more. Since she had been such a good girl, I allowed her to service me.


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height6' 0" (183 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchA woman who understands what is required of her and will ask questions before making assumptions. Intellect and a sense of humor go further with me than looks.
Our first dateJust a simple dinner and a whole lot of conversation.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Branding, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cupping, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Fisting, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Physical humiliation, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasA threesome with a little and a sub. Both were unsure but once the pleasure began they followed my lead. A lot of squirting and orgasms were had. Would do again but not a requirement.


FetishesCuckolding, Exhibitionism, Feathers, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Smoking, Tickling, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Adult book stores

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties, All of the above and more!
Size matterYes, definitely
"Off Limits":Scat, watersports, cutting.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyGangbangs and racking are two things I'd like to experience. Watching my sub give herself to whomever I decide is also a turn on. Threesomes are fun.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Someone small and timid yet open and unafraid of surrendering.