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I'm 36, getting in shape and living life. I am divorced and work full time. After my divorce I found I was into different things but not sure how to approach "it" anymore.
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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Elevator,
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:On the beach

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildA few extra pounds
Height155 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Best featureLegs
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Bra size36 / 80
Cup sizeDD
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityHotel Room
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleCsr

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Sensitivity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchSingle
Our first dateFlowers and a lot of talking.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Hair pulling, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasThe guy was all about me then, when I was completely comfortable he let me take care of him.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Regular Bars

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isOverrated
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterYes, definitely
"Off Limits":Must talk further

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want to try to find a man who can read me like a book.
Fantasy sex partner:Hmmmmm

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Haven't ever. But interested.
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap
Implement:Hand, Rulers / Martinet, Belt
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings